Let me introduce myself.....

The value of identity of course is that so often with it comes purpose. ~Richard Grant

I have been doing some soul searching, looking for my life’s purpose.  I want to share with you what I have found out about myself.

I am….

I am a child of God who has been saved through the blood of Jesus Christ.  He is the only Judge I’m concerned about.

I am a daughter who has learned about hard work and the importance of family.

I am a wife who is loved even when I’m not lovable.

I am a mother who tries to bring my best every, often fails but always tries again the next day.

I am a friend who tries to be loyal.  Who will stand shoulder to shoulder with those who need me.

I am fiercely protective of my family. This includes my extended family and anyone that I consider family.

I hate injustice and try my best to speak up when I feel someone is being wronged.

I will tell you when I think you are wrong.

I’m not book smart but I’m experience smart.  So, I don’t need you to make me feel like I’m stupid.

I am a military spouse; it’s a blessing, not a curse.  It doesn’t define me though.  I’m much more than that.  I don’t wear his rank.

I believe there is good in everyone.

I love a good cup of coffee in the morning and a good glass of wine in the evening.

Bailey’s brings back a lot of good memories.

I am called to be where I am right now but that calling may change.

I love lighthouses.

I may have A.D.D.

I am passionate.

I wear my heart on my sleeve.

I prefer dark chocolate.

I believe Reese’s peanut butter cups are the perfect candy.

I want to make it to all 50 states before I die.

I want to be like my grandmothers when I grow up.

I want to learn to quilt, play guitar and make my own wine.

One day I want to own my own construction business with my husband.

I believe Idaho has some of the most beautiful scenery I’ve ever seen. And if God sees fit maybe I’ll get to live there again.

My dream is to have a vacation home on a lake in Idaho, in the mountains where my boys and their families can come for the holidays.

I am a chameleon and can be whatever the situation calls for.

I don’t have a fear of heights but have a fear of falling.

I use to be an x ray tech but I doubt I ever will be again.

I try to find the joy in all circumstances.

My boys will be my greatest accomplishment.

I now wish I would have become an architect and it thrills me that my son wants to be one.

One day I’ll ditch my SUV for a sports car.

I want a 55 Chevy Nomad.

I still don’t think I’m a grown up.

I love leaving positive comments in establishments.

I still have friends I’ve known since Kindergarten but I have new friends that feel like I’ve known them all my life.

I hate the phrase, “You need to change your attitude.”  I like my attitude just the way it is.

Sarcasm is a gift.

A good sense of humor is my spiritual gift.

I believe there is power in music.  I like anything from Christian music to AC/DC.

I have very little tolerance for stupidity.

I collect quotes.

I’m not afraid to say I’m sorry when I’ve messed up.  Apologizing is a very brave thing to do. 

I say goodnight every night to my best friend because she’s in heaven.  As much as I miss her I know she’s finally free of all her ills.

I think my sister is funnier than and more creative than me.

Volleyball is the best sport on earth followed by NFL football.

I love the Colts.  I’ll cheer for the Saints, the Packers, the Butler Bulldogs, Boise State, and maybe Purdue and Ball state but I’m not holding my breath.  NASCAR intrigues me.

Christmas Eve is my favorite night of the entire year.  I love Christmas mornings.

Teachers and coaches have been some of the most influential people in my life.

I didn’t use to like the color pink.

I’m anything BUT a Princess.  I think I’m special, not better.

I am a secret iCarly fan.

Some of my favorite shows are the Middle, Modern Family, and Burn Notice. And I miss Friday Night Lights.

Sweet Home Alabama is my all time favorite movie.

I love musicals.

I don’t really know what I want to do when I grow up.

One day I will write a book.

I don’t argue politics or religion.

I respect people who respect me.

I own a gun permit.

Blue is my favorite color followed by grey.

A simple hot fudge sundae is my favorite ice cream.

I think what people do speaks louder than words.

I like to ride around with the music turned up loud.

I believe my situational awareness is above par.

I take the best parts of the people around me and incorporate them in my own life.

Forgiveness is my biggest weakness.

I’m not easily offended.

I am better than I once was.

I have a tendency to be lazy or to be ahead of the curve, there’s no in between.

I’m okay with not conforming.

The character trait I admire the most in people is integrity.

I am a bad judge of first impressions.

I wish I weighed 20 lbs less.

I still get nervous watching the movie Hoosiers.

I’m not good at using a glue gun, cooking with yeast, sewing or ironing.

I don’t like tomatoes but I love salsa.  Mushrooms make me cringe!

And as you know I hate math.

I’m sure there are a couple more hundred things I could add to this list but this is a good start and I’ll add to it from time to time.  What’s important is that your list is different and that’s what’s cool.  We are none the same, thank goodness, how boring would this world be if we were the same and had the same views and beliefs.  Life is about figuring out who you are and embracing it….and that’s what I’m learning to do.